HIGHER PATH Life Coaching
with Rich Wyler, Certified Life Coach
My Proactive, Preventive Daily Sobriety Plan
1. Identify my potential “temptations” or trigger points daily.
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What specific, practical actions will I take if I start to feel triggered or recognize that I’m in the early stages of a potential addiction cycle? What will I do instead? Think in terms of:
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Taking different actions (removing yourself from the situation, calling for help, walking away, etc.)
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Managing and dealing with uncomfortable emotions
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Redirecting thoughts, challenging distressing thoughts
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Who will I contact?
3. Make myself accountable daily.
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Who will I check in with daily (specific names)?
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How will I check in with them (phone, text, email, etc.)?
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When will I check in with them?
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What will the check-in consist of? For example:
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Prayer
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Emotions check-in
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Risks check-in: Identifying potential triggers for the day
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Intervention plan: Describing potential intervention steps for the day, if needed
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“Scoring” your “temptation scale” for the day, on a scale of 1-5. How triggered or at risk are you?
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Accountability follow-up
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What potential events could trigger me to want to act out today?
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What potential emotions could trigger me to want to act out today?
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What potential thoughts (memories, fantasies, or negative or self-critical thoughts) could trigger me to want to act out today?
2. Make realistic intervention plans daily.
4. Meet core needs daily.
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What specific needs must I be sure to meet today?
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Emotional needs
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Social needs
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Physical Needs
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Spiritual Needs
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Other needs
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What proactive actions must I take to meet these essential needs in healthy ways?
5. Read recovery literature daily.
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What specific readings (names of books, etc.)?
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12 Steps literature
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Testimonials
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Scripture
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Other uplifting, motivational books
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Could include audio books.
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Minimum time each day (be realistic, but stretch)?
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Time of day:
6. Pray and/or meditate daily
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How will I connect with God and/or my own Inner Wisdom today?
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When?
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For how long?
7. Attend 12 Step or similar meetings
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What meetings, groups or healing sessions can I participate in today, either “live” or virtually?
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When?
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How?
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How will I be authentic and vulnerable with others?